tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14050498.post5639660207973075579..comments2023-09-02T08:20:17.250-05:00Comments on i love you best: messyJennhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04965522094526591791noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14050498.post-13164290693854168502009-07-09T00:37:06.687-05:002009-07-09T00:37:06.687-05:00You know Jenn, it's been a year since my Grand...You know Jenn, it's been a year since my Grandmother died and I'm STILL grieving and in the most superficial ways sometimes. Just today, I wished she was still alive because I've got no one to teach me how to knit or I don't know which old movies to Netflix and she'd know those answers. It sneaks up on you when you least expect it and the thing I've learned (I actually got this from the play "Rabbit Hole") is that grief doesn't really go away, at least not in the way we would think it would. You learn to live with it and as the days go by, this huge boulder that you've been shouldering of grief will become a small brick in your pocket that you will always carry with you. I guess my point is don't feel like grief is this formulaic, time constricted thing you gotta get past. People grieve differently. We learn to continue on and turn that grief into a memorial of sorts-- to let that person become a part of us and take their Good with us. They become a part of us. and the fact that we keep living? It's almost as if through our living, they live as well on a whole another level.Musical Writerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10705596294773681787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14050498.post-80746691229829917032009-07-09T00:26:11.616-05:002009-07-09T00:26:11.616-05:00This comment has been removed by the author.Musical Writerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10705596294773681787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14050498.post-42247746743891874902009-07-08T01:55:26.293-05:002009-07-08T01:55:26.293-05:00There is not a deadline on your grief, dear friend...There is not a deadline on your grief, dear friend. Taking care of YOU is most important right now. Love, love, love!Angehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05691663403314193251noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14050498.post-27728581688992170322009-07-07T21:09:08.559-05:002009-07-07T21:09:08.559-05:00Baby steps. You are surrounded by people who are h...Baby steps. You are surrounded by people who are here to help you with "life" while you take care of yourself. Love you, friend.Kim@The Polka Dot Presshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07724643764158857504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14050498.post-7188484437139924582009-07-07T12:20:15.588-05:002009-07-07T12:20:15.588-05:00It's ok if things take longer or even if you h...It's ok if things take longer or even if you have to set them aside altogether. I know it's hard wearing masks all the time and pretending things are ok when your world has collapsed. Just take things one moment at a time and allow others to help you get through things too (I know that can be easier said than done). <br />Wishing you peace & loveRhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04286068404893748428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14050498.post-33449687227642290132009-07-06T20:17:32.737-05:002009-07-06T20:17:32.737-05:00Easy does it.Take your time.Lean on others.Don'...Easy does it.Take your time.Lean on others.Don't worry about the messy-ness.Take care of yourself.You are remarkable.You are loved.Cindyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00802387383114378121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14050498.post-47305373939972840872009-07-06T19:58:10.069-05:002009-07-06T19:58:10.069-05:00Jenn,
You have been through a devestating tragedy,...Jenn,<br />You have been through a devestating tragedy, losing your beautiful little child. I can't imagine what it is like or how I would be afterwards. Just the fact that you go to work is a massive accomplishment. In my opinion you are a very strong lady. I am sending you big big hugs and continue to pray for you and your family.<br />God Bless all of you,<br /><br />Love, Denise (Tyler's mom)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14050498.post-46119259283076800312009-07-06T19:00:25.086-05:002009-07-06T19:00:25.086-05:00One knick knack at a time. One breath at a time....One knick knack at a time. One breath at a time. One day at a time. One moment at a time. I love you with all my heart.Momnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14050498.post-86688678079338903412009-07-06T17:18:37.872-05:002009-07-06T17:18:37.872-05:00You are beautiful.You are beautiful.Tammy On the Gohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14043677672931768639noreply@blogger.com