Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Friday, December 18, 2009
Thursday, December 17, 2009
Tuesday, December 15, 2009
I have sung Christmas carols.
I baked cookies.
I have shopped. and wrapped all that.
I have made Christmas crafts.
I ordered Christmas cards. and will send them once they arrive.
I have done all the things. I have checked all the boxes.
I am more ready for Christmas than I ever have been.
Except Michael's first Christmas. But he had surgery on the 15th.
And I didn't know how much time he would be in the hospital.
I got it all done. Much like now.
His first Christmas here. His first Christmas gone.
I can't seem to get into the spirit. I go through the motions.
Because my boy loved all that came with Christmas.
All the shopping and the Christmas crafts and the songs and the cookies.
Posing for the Christmas card photo shoot.
Which I sometimes never sent out the Christmas card.
I turn the Christmas radio station off when I'll be Home for Christmas comes on.
Or Feliz Navidad.
I resist the urge to buy boy toys. Shopping
was easier this year.
And so much harder.
I push myself to get into the hustle. And the bustle.
But I come home and sit for hours. Because plastering on a smile is hard work.
I'm looking for the magic. And the joy.
And coming up empty.
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Friday, December 04, 2009
Wednesday, December 02, 2009
"Christmas is about love, baby jesus being born and happiness. Wait there are four things … I can’t remember the fourth. Happiness, love, baby jesus being born and giving. That’s right giving." Michael, 12/10/2008
How glad was I to find that little nugget? So glad that I typed it out. To remember. Little did I know last year what this year would look like.
Tonight I plan to put up Michael's tree. The one with all of the ornaments that he picked out over the years. This would have been our activity for tonight. Would have been.